May 22, 2013

Girlhood explained online

Young women gossiping

Powered by Guardian.co.ukThis article titled “Girlhood explained online” was written by Eva Wiseman, for The Observer on Saturday 21st April 2012 23.04 UTC

What must it be like growing up female now? What must it feel like to be 14 today, growing up in a world where, rather than being limited to reading Judy Blume novels and More magazine’s “position of the fortnight”, slyly devoured in the WH Smith by the 260 bus stop, things like Rookie exist? Rookiemag.com is a site edited by Tavi Gevinson, the 15-year-old blogger who Lady Gaga called “the future of journalism”, and, as per, she was right.

They publish three times a day (after school, at dinnertime and before bed), things like “A guide to navigating the end of a friendship”, “Literally the best thing ever: Glitter”, and, my favourite, “How to look like you weren’t just crying in less than five minutes”. This speaks to me at 31 – I can only imagine its impact had I read this in my teens. At the recent TedxTeen event, Gevinson talked why she launched the site last year. “One thing that can be very alienating,” she said of current “empowering” female role models, “is that girls then think that to be feminists they have to live up to being perfectly consistent in their beliefs, never being insecure, never having doubts, having all the answers… And this is not true. And actually recognising all the contradictions I was feeling became easier once I realised that feminism was not a rulebook but a discussion, a conversation, a process.”

I am not nostalgic for those years when it felt like the braces on your teeth were an aching physical metaphor for life. A time when you couldn’t talk about feeling awkward and oily and different, because that would’ve meant admitting that, before then, you were faking normality, and fakery was the worst crime of all. Those normal girls who weren’t like us, who were in perfect control, their bodies contained. Who could talk to adults, and boys, and who didn’t pull their jumpers over their knuckles or hide behind their fringes. The girls in magazines, gambolling white-teethed along a beach. Gambolling wasn’t for us. We would definitely trip over our feet and someone would definitely laugh.

The world worries for teenage girls today. All the porny influences, the sexting, the surgery – all the saturated pink. But counteracting these pressures to conform are the voices like those on Rookie, ones that are non-prescriptive, enthusiastic, embarrassing, funny. Ones that, by unpicking the awkwardness of female adolescence and providing a place to talk about it, have helped feminism become almost fashionable. Today you don’t have to go searching for “your people” at libraries and record shops. They’re all there in your Wi-Fi, screaming about hair dye. The internet is the indie-club toilet of the universe. This is where young women can talk really noisily about who they fancy, compare tights’ deniers and learn that they don’t have to dress like strippers unless they really, really want to. That there are other people just like them who are also feeling angry and weird and like everything’s awful, and that, even alone in front of a computer, they can feel part of something. This is the other side of the internet’s menace, that bit that parents and the papers see. These are the ribbony networks of girldom that tie the web together – they are well-lit roads through the intimidating, dark bits.

Mine was the last generation to grow up without the internet at home – I wonder what we would be like if we’d had the whole web to play with. Instead of wandering through our teenage years with only Just 17 to teach us how to be, would we have stormed into adulthood with our eyes open, leading with our personalities? And what does it mean that for us our adolescence is still so present, that Rookie resonates so strongly, that a schoolgirl is one of the sanest, most articulate voices in the media today? Rather than having grown up, she makes me feel like I’ve just got really good at being 16.

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Have Fun With The Family This Easter

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You’ve probably all heard of the term ‘Parent Bloggers’, but have you ever taken the time to look closer into the circle of parents writing daily in the blogosphere? You will find some amazing posts covering all kinds of parenting and family related topics. A wide and varied selection of blogs –  personal, funny, touching, professional, reviews, crafty, recipes… whatever your taste, there will definitely be a blog that you will come to love following.

Here Flying Start takes a look at a few recent Easter recipe and craft posts featured on a selection of parenting blogs.

Easter Bakes  - Easter Biscuit RecipesEaster Bakes

On www.plus2point4.co.uk Aly and the kids have been busy making Easter bakes. Not one, two but recipes for you to make with your kids, Easter biscuits and Simnel biscuits.

Aly’s daughter is already eager to make some more biscuits and we aren’t suprised as they sound so scrummy, containing ingredients including mixed apple pie spice, cinnamon, currants, marzipan and sugar coated chocolate eggs just to name a few to tickle your taste buds!

Click on the image to go direct to the recipe!

angry birds easter egg craft

Angry Birds Easter Egg Craft

Over at Red Ted Art, Maggie demonstrates Easter Egg blowing and decorating with a twist…. an Angry Birds twist!
With instructions on how to blow eggs and decorate your angry birds using acrylic paints and basic craft items, your children can proudly show off their decorated eggs.
Click on the Angry Bird image to go direct to step by step instructions on making your very own Angry Bird characters.
Here are some more Easter craft ideas we are sure you will love:
Kinder Egg Suprise craftEasy Spotty EggsChocolate Easter NestEaster Chick CardsEaster BonnetsCotton Wool LambsEgg CandlesEaster Egg Decorating

Quick and Easy Easter Egg Cupcakes

Over at www.mummyalarm.co.uk , they absolutely love cupcakes and seeing that Easter is just around the corner,  have decided to share their quick and easy Easter Egg Cupcake recipe with you.

The cupcakes look lovely on an Easter-themed table and are really easy to make.

Click on the image to go direct to the recipe!

Easter Crafts Cress Egg HeadCress Egg Heads

The Flying Start team love this fantastic idea over at www.kidsonestopshop.co.uk .

This is a great activity to do with children. Not only do they get involved with being all crafty, they get to grow something too!

Cress grows in a matter of days and you don’t even need soil!
With just some empty egg shells, basic craft materials and some cress seeds, you and your children can make a whole egg head family!

Click on the image to go direct to the simple step by step instructions!

Bubble Painting Easter Chicks

Over at thinlyspread.co.uk they have been having lots of fun blowing yellow bubbles to create fantastic Easter Chicks.
This is so simple and so satisfying. It can get very messy so it is usually very popular with children and the author of Thinly Spread says “I have even had success with those who are not keen on getting their hands dirty! ”
Flying Start thinks this is a brilliant crafty idea to keep little ones (and even bigger ones!) entertained this Easter.

Click the image to find how to make Bubble painted Easter chicks, plus a sneak preview of the finished product!

Easter PieVegetarian Easter Pie

theveggieexperience.blogspot.co.uk features a great Vegetarian main course dish which can be eaten with roast potatoes, vegetables and all the trimmings over the Easter weekend. Clare, editor at The Veggie Experience says “I quite like having vegetarian pies when the meat-eaters are tucking into their roast as they are quite substantial, fill you up and you don’t feel like you haven’t had a proper meal – which is what I feel like if I have just been served the potatoes and veg without the meat.” Clare’s inspiration came from a Harvest Pie recipe which uses lots of root vegetables, she adjusted the vegetables to suit the season. Click on the image to go direct to the recipe!

easter egg chicksCrafty Kid’s Chocolate Easter Chicks

‘Absolutely Fabulous’ is what Flying Start thinks about these yummy scrummy funky chocolatey Easter chicks!
A Mummy Too shows you how to make a family of funky chicks using Cadbury creme eggs, orange chocolate buttons, white chocolate buttons and milk chocolate buttons.
The only problem is… they look too cute to eat!

Click the pic for instructions on how to make your own family of funky Easter chicks!

daffodil biscuitsDaffodil Biscuits

The recent sunshine inspired the-gingerbread-house.co.uk to make these lovely daffodil biscuits. If you want an Easter recipe but without the hassle, then this idea is just for you.  Using a gingerbread biscuit kit from a supermarket, The Gingerbread House improvised using an alternative cutter to create daffodil shaped spring biscuits for Easter. The best part…. you can make 12 biscuits out of one mix!

Click on the image to go direct to the recipe!

Easter CupcakesEaster Cupcake

Easter Cupcakes

Over at Mums The Word, Jayne has been busy making Easter Cupcakes, which we have to say look totally scrumptious!

With simple ingredients, a simple method and an amazing outcome, we are sure you will agree that these cupcakes already have your taste buds tingling!

Jayne has shared the recipe here with us.  You can visit Mums The Word by clicking on the cupcake image.

Ingredients

Cakes

  • 100g butter or margarine
  • 100g caster sugar
  • 100g self-raising flour, sifted
  • 2 eggs
  • 1/4 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon vanilla essence

Icing

Decoration

  • White ready roll icing
  • Yellow food colouring
  • Clean paintbrush
  • Mini eggs

Equipment

  • Mixing bowl
  • Cupcake cases
  • Whisk
  • Teaspoons
  • Piping bag
  • ‘Grass’ nozzle (Wiltons number 233)

Method (found here: http://www.cupcakerecipe.co.uk/cupcake-recipe/method/14/ and here: http://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/basicbuttericing_73263)

  • Preheat the oven to 180°C (Electric oven | Electric fan oven 160°C | Gas Mark 4) and place 12 paper cases into a muffin tin.
  • Using an electric whisk, food processor or wooden spoon, beat the butter and sugar until very light and fluffy.
  • Add the eggs one at a time, beating each one in well before adding the next. Add the vanilla essence if using.
  • Carefully fold in the flour (and baking powder if using).
  • Alternatively, you can mix the ingredients together using a food processor. Use the pulse button to mix together in between adding the ingredients in the order above.
  • Bake in the oven for 10 – 20 minutes. After 10 minutes, check to see if the cupcakes are ready by inserting a cocktail stick into one of the cupcakes. If it comes out dry then the cupcakes are done. If not, then back in the oven for a few minutes more. Don’t overcook the cupcakes otherwise they will dry out. Lift the cupcakes out of the muffin tin and leave to cool on a wire rack.
  • Once the cakes have cooled, make the icing by beating the butter in a large bowl until soft. Add half of the icing sugar and beat until smooth.
  • Add the remaining icing sugar and one tablespoon of the milk and beat the mixture until creamy and smooth. Beat in the milk, if necessary, to loosen the mixture.
  • Stir in the food colouring until well combined.

To Decorate

  • Half fill the icing bag with the green icing and ice each cupcake all over. To make a grass effect, hold the nozzle a few millimetres away from the cake, squeeze the bag until a little comes out and then pull the bag directly upwards.
  • Roll out your white icing and use daisy shapes cutters of various sizes to put on each cake. You can paint a little blob of yellow food colouring to the middle of each daisy.
  • Place a couple of mini eggs on top too, for a really Eastery feel!

Easter attractions: tips to beat the rush and save money

easter attractions

It’s school holiday time again!
So have you thought about what you are going to do with the kids this Easter break?
Here’s some tips and ideas….

Powered by Guardian.co.ukThis article titled “Easter attractions: tips to beat the rush and save money” was written by Lisa Bachelor, for guardian.co.uk on Wednesday 4th April 2012 14.33 UTC

Legoland and the London Dungeons … places that seem like paradise for children, but hell on earth for parents having to travel to them during the Easter break. Nevertheless, there will be many brave souls doing just that, so are there ways to avoid the lengthy queues (and tantrums) to help you get in and on the best rides? And what is the best way to avoid being stuck in traffic on the motorway before you even reach the gates?

We asked Thorpe Park, Legoland, Alton Towers, the Eden Project, the London Dungeon and the AA for some tips.

Book online in advance

The main piece of advice from all the attractions that could save you money, as well as time. Discounts for booking more than seven days ahead range from 10% (Legoland) to 25% (Thorpe Park and Alton Towers). Most places also let you print off the tickets in advance and avoid having to queue when you get there. Thorpe Park gives those who choose this option early ride time to get into the park an hour before the general public at 9am.

Know your ticket options

Lots of attractions sell fast-track/premier tickets to get you in and on to rides more quickly.

Thorpe Park Fastrack tickets start from £3 for a single ride (on top of the entrance price), or you can buy Fastrack packages from £7.50. Be warned, though, some readers who have bought priority tickets to attractions in the past have told us they didn’t get in any quicker.

Consider staying in the hotel at the attraction

You might pay more than for other hotels in the area, but this could be a small price for getting your offspring on the rides early. Antony Garley from Hertfordshire has booked into the hotel at Chessington World of Adventures this year having lost hours queueing last year. “We booked into a hotel outside the theme park last year but ended up queueing for ages just to get into the park. This year we decided to stay on site so we can start early and hopefully avoid any other queues for the rides themselves. We’ve also booked fast-track tickets.”

Legoland has a new resort hotel with guests allowed access the rides at 9.30am, half an hour before the park opens.

Know the peak visiting times – and avoid like the plague

The busiest time of day at the Eden Project is between 10:30am and 1pm, according to a spokeswoman. Thorpe Park and Alton Towers suggest the best time to get on the rides is the last hour of opening or lunchtime when most people are eating. London Dungeons, notorious for its queues, advises arriving before 10.30am or after 6pm to get a cheaper entry price and a shorter wait time.

Plan your visit and target your rides

All the big attractions with multiple rides reckon you can make huge time savings by planning your visit in advance using the park maps, rather than winging it when you arrive, and suggest you visit the most popular rides/ experiences off-peak.

At Eden Project, for example, this is the Rainforest Biome, which gets busy from around 11am until 2pm. “We would suggest that people either arrive early and make a beeline for it, or wait until after 2:30pm when it will be less busy,” a spokeswoman says.

Thorpe Park’s main attraction is The Swarm, Europe’s tallest winged rollercoaster, which opened in March, while Legoland’s must-sees are Atlantis and the Star Wars mini land experience. At Alton Towers its newest attraction, Nemesis Sub-Terra, is proving extremely popular, while other other sought-after rides include Nemesis, Oblivion, Rita, Air and TH13TEEN.

Attraction specific tips

Alton Towers has a Parent Q Share pass. This allows one adult to stand in the queue for a ride (lucky them) while freeing the other to wander around with smaller children. Once one adult has ridden, they swap parent care duties, hand over the pass and the other can ride without having to queue. You can get the pass from guest services.

Alton Towers also has Single rider queues. if you don’t mind splitting up from your group use the single rider queues which are available on many of the more popular thrill rides

Legoland has Q-Bots, handheld devices that allow you to reserve a place in a virtual queue for your favourite rides without having to actually stand in line. Prices for a Q-Bot range from £15 up to £70 a person.

Which roads are likely to be most congested over Easter?

According to TrafficMaster these include the M25 western sector between junctions 12 (M3) and 21 (M1), especially around 14/15 (Heathrow Airport and M4); and the M25 eastern sector between junctions 27 (M11) and 2 (A2), especially around the Dartford crossing.

The M1 between junctions 6A (M25) and 13 (Milton Keynes) is expected to be busy, especially through the section of major roadworks between junctions 10 (Luton) and 13 (Milton Keynes).

In the south-west, the A30 between Exeter and Cornwall and the A38 between Exeter and Bodmin are always congested during holiday periods, and in south Wales the M4 between Severn Crossing, Newport and Cardiff is expected to be busy.

In Yorkshire and the north-east traffic is expected to be busy on the A1/A1M between the M1 at Aberford and A66 at Scotch Corner, and on the A64 between Leeds, York and Scarborough.

York is also the venue of the 2012 Royal Maundy service – there will be restrictions and road closures within the city, especially around York Minster, throughout the day on Maundy Thursday.

What can people do to avoid traffic jams?

The AA said it is expecting this Easter to be quieter on the roads, largely because most schools broke up last Friday. It expects getaway traffic to peak on Maundy Thursday.

However, it says the key getaway routes and other “pinch points” in the network will still be busy at peak times. To avoid traffic, either travel earlier or later and check the traffic and weather reports before departing.

While on the move local radio is a good source of updates, but it’s also a good idea to use the TA or TP traffic function fitted as standard on many car radios. This is when the radio automatically switches to traffic bulletins (a useful but often overlooked feature).

Also take a road atlas and satnav if you have one, to help you take a detour around any major incidents.

As a general rule of thumb, the AA advises switching off your engine if you’re likely to be stationary for more than three minutes. Typically, an engine uses fuel costing 2p-3p per minute of idling.

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Children becoming addicted to video game fantasy worlds, teachers warn

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Do your children play adult computer games?
Do you worry about violence or the effects of prolonged  play?

Powered by Guardian.co.ukThis article titled “Children becoming addicted to video game fantasy worlds, teachers warn” was written by Jessica Shepherd, education correspondent, for The Guardian on Tuesday 3rd April 2012 14.55 UTC

A growing number of young children are acting out violent scenes from adult computer games in the playground, teachers have warned.

Pupils as young as four and five are simulating car crashes and graphic injuries as a result of playing games unsupervised in their bedrooms, the Association of Teachers and Lecturers (ATL) annual conference was told.

A motion at the conference called on ministers to introduce "stringent legislation" to counter the "negative effects some computer games are having on the very young".

Primary school teachers said the games were making their pupils far more aggressive and addicted to "fantasy worlds that separate them from reality".

Doctors found children who continually play computer games may be more likely to develop tendinitis – an inflammation between the muscles and bones – and suffer from seizures, teachers said.

Psychologists have expressed concerns that playing some games make children more aggressive.

The teachers fear that by spending hours alone playing the games, children could become anti-social and slow to develop speaking and listening skills. Many pupils arrive at school exhausted having played the games until the early hours of the morning, they said.

Alison Sherratt, a teacher at Riddlesden St Mary’s Church of England primary school in Keighley, West Yorkshire, said her four- and five-year-old pupils spend their breaks pretending to "throw themselves out of the window of the play car in slow motion" and act out blood "spurting from their bodies".

"We all expect to see rough and tumble, but I have seen little ones acting out quite graphic scenes in the playground and there is a lot more hitting, hurting and thumping in the classroom for no particular reason."

She said her pupils believed the violence depicted in computer games was real and tried to recreate it in play.

"Obesity, social exclusion, loneliness, physical fitness, sedentary solitary lives – these are all descriptions of children who are already hooked to games … Sadly there is a notable correlation between the children who admit to playing games and those who come to school really tired," she said.

Mary Bousted, general secretary of ATL, said many teachers were worried that parents ignored age restrictions on games. "The watershed tends to work quite well, but with online TV and video children and young people are probably watching inappropriate content over a range of media," she said.

"It’s about reminding parents and carers that they have a very real responsibility for their children and that schools can’t do it alone."

Meanwhile, teachers have called for the government to abolish a website that allows parents to rate schools. Teaching unions claim the site gives anyone with a grudge against a school free rein to make an unfounded claim.

The Parent View site, launched by the school inspectorate Ofsted last year, encourages parents to assess state schools against 12 criteria. A school or college with poor ratings may receive a visit from inspectors. Parents researching potential schools for their children can log in and see the comments.

Robin Bevan, a teacher at Southend High School for Boys in Essex, told the ATL conference the website hosted views that "may not be an accurate reflection of parents’ views" and that there was no attempt to verify whether those posting comments were "genuine parents".

An Ofsted spokesman said parents had to register with a password and an email address to post on the site.

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Pupils going hungry as school meals shrink, teachers warn

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Powered by Guardian.co.ukThis article titled “Pupils going hungry as school meals shrink, teachers warn” was written by Jessica Shepherd, education correspondent, for guardian.co.uk on Monday 2nd April 2012 23.05 UTC

School lunch portions are now so small that many children in England are hungry during afternoon lessons, teachers have warned.

Canteens are cutting costs by reducing portion sizes, the annual conference of the Association of Teachers and Lecturers (ATL) heard. Some run out of food before all children have been served.

At the same time, teachers said, the number of children eligible for free school meals was on the increase because of rising unemployment. Pupils are entitled to a free lunch if their parents’ joint income is less than £16,000 a year. For many of these children their only daily hot meal is eaten at school.

An ATL poll of 503 school staff found that more than a third had noticed a rise in the number of children eligible for free school meals. Just over three-fifths (62%) said the cost of school meals had risen by up to £95 a year per child. But many warned that portion sizes had been reduced and the choice of healthy options had become more limited.

School food experts said this could have a damaging effect on children’s concentration and behaviour.

One teacher, who did not want to be named, said children at her primary school were served “very small portions and very limited choice. Children who come with packed lunches eat a lot more at lunchtime.”

Another said the portions at her school were very poor. “There seems to be no regular inspection of the food, the kitchens or portion sizes,” she said. A secondary school teacher said schools offered chips, pasta and rice rather than vegetables and salad because that was what cooks could prepare in bulk quantities.

Many schools outsource the running of their canteens to private firms. Mary Bousted, general secretary of ATL, said: “Private market forces risk taking over what we are feeding the nation’s children. The size of a portion will, to some extent, affect the size of the profits of an outsourced firm … it is absolutely the case that children are going hungry.”

The Jamie Oliver Foundation, a charity that helps the public to make better-informed choices about food, said a nutritious lunch increased children’s concentration, improved their behaviour and made it more likely that they would achieve top grades.

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