May 21, 2013

“Hi, My Name is Santa and I am an Alcoholic”

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What will you be leaving out for Santa this Christmas Eve?
Even if only one in 10 families in the UK left out an alcoholic drink, a sozzled Santa would be over the limit well before he could down all 1.7million drinks!

Families are being encouraged to ditch the traditional booze and leave out a soft drink to keep Santa safe on his sleigh this year – with an opportunity to get the right message across to children about drink driving!

Click to download this colouring card

This message, coming from 152 Hungry Horse pubs across the UK, isn’t just targeting Santa.

They have a little something for everyone….

Designated drivers enjoying Christmas celebrations get two free soft drinks and kids can colour in a special Christmas card featuring a sober Santa drinking a soft drink after completing his global delivery round which reads: “Dear Santa, please ‘go soft’ and drive safely this Christmas”

A spokesperson for the restaurant said: “Santa is our best-loved designated driver, and yet every year we ply him with alcohol during his epic global journey.

“We want him to stay safe on his sleigh and keep the right side of the law, and encouraging parents to ditch the sherry in favour of a soft drink this Christmas is a good way of getting the message across to youngsters without resorting to scare tactics”.

What will you be leaving Santa and his reindeers this Christmas?!

(Flying Start Magazines Amanda says: “The Santa at our house doesn’t like Sherry…. so we leave him, erm, Baileys… Mmmmm!… oh and he tends to eat all the Pringles too…Nom nom!)

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Children and young people with autism and their families offer advice on coping with Christmas

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The National Autistic Society (NAS) has produced a film featuring families with children and young people affected by autism offering advice on dealing with the Christmas period.

The National Autistic Society Christmas film 2010 from NAS on Vimeo.

Most children and young people in the UK look forward to the festive season, the family get-togethers, decorations, presents, Christmas dinner and getting away from school, but all of these can cause huge anxiety to people with autism. Changes to routine can be very traumatic and lights and noise can cause sensory overload that can be unbearable. Many have dietary issues that are magnified during this period. The shops are crammed with people, adding to their anxiety and visits from extended family can cause added social pressures.

So how do parents and carers cope and manage to have a trauma-free Christmas that can be enjoyed by the whole family?
Jane Smith explains on the film: “Decorations can be upsetting for my son. We cannot have much decoration and the tree has to be set out a certain way. He does not like balloons because he knows they pop and he cannot handle the noise. It can be upsetting for other members of the family who would like more decorations but we cannot risk it for the anxiety it might cause.”

Caroline Hattersley, NAS Head of Information, Advice & Advocacy, said: “Autism is a lifelong and disabling condition that affects around one in one hundred people in the UK. Christmas is a time of celebration and there is no reason why children and young people with autism should not enjoy the festive season in the same way as other people. We have produced this film to demonstrate some of the issues that people face at Christmas and to give others the opportunity to contribute to the discussion, and share experiences and ways of coping.”

Bread & Jam Winter 2010 collection

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Vintage-inspired dress company Bread & Jam have launched 6 gorgeous new designs for Autumn/Winter.
Each of these fabulous designs is a limited edition with only 25 produced in each size.

Bronco Pick-a-Pocket Dress

Señor Skull Pick-a-Pocket Dress

Pillow Fight Pick-a-Pocket Dress

Love Birds Pick-a-Pocket Dress

Country Girl Pick-a-Pocket Dress

Graphite Rose Pick-a-Pocket Dress

Bread & Jam dresses are not for sitting around looking pretty, they are designed to have fun in!

Owners Lisa Swerling and Sofia Dyson came up with the idea for Bread & Jam because not only did they love beautiful vintage-inspired clothing on their 4 little girls, they also knew how much their girls liked to get messy, climb trees and throw mud! So they put their creative minds together and decided to launch their very own dress collection that would tick all the boxes!

The ‘pick-a-pocket’ dress features a requisite pocket – some big enough to store handfuls of very important pebbles, others so small you’d just squeeze in a woodlouse or two.

Made in the UK from 100% cotton, these super comfy dresses are particularly flexible for dancing, playing and general mischief making…. not only that, they are machine washable meaning they can be worn time and time again and even passed down to a lucky little sister!!

Visit www.ilovebreadandjam.com

Pregnant and Gorgeous

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Courtenay Hitchcock, leading British pregnancy photographer, shares some of his work and his views on how looking at images of your pregnant body can help change your perception of yourself.

So; you’re pregnant. Really pregnant. Everything is starting to become just that bit harder, nothing in your wardrobe fits, you’re crying at charity commercials and can’t stop watching Real Birth shows.

Absolutely the perfect time to have your photograph taken.

I can hear you now, shuddering into your coffee at the very idea.

“You made me feel beautiful and serene in my body for the first time in months. I will always be glad that I had these photographs taken, and can’t thank you enough.” - Sandra

But why? Why is this a bad idea? Yes, as a woman you might feel vulnerable and exposed and less than your physical best. But aren’t you also proud? Amazed by your body? Excited at the very thought of what that bump contains?

17,000 years ago the ‘Three Graces’ were carved into a cave wall in France. Placing my hands on one of these amazing female figures this summer, I could feel a pregnant stomach. I was feeling an unmistakeable, deeply-familiar ‘bump’ that had been carved in love and awe by a prehistoric man.
Yet in a modern society in which the key is ‘anything goes’, people will still react with either “oooh, you’re brave!” or quiet, baffled horror.

“I felt rather vulnerable and awkward to begin with. But Courtenay, you are brilliant, and I just felt myself and my pregnancy open up to you. When we were finished, I simply felt beautiful, desirable and special. And the images made me cry – simply stunning, I’ve never looked so gorgeous.” - Thandi

We can’t help it, we’re all shaped by societies expectations. In recent history, society asked us to hide our pregnancies. Stay indoors, wear tent-like smocks, and for goodness sake don’t LIFT anything. Over the last decade, however, there has been a sea-change in attitude. Pregnancy is now ‘on trend’… While that has got us out of the kitchen and into some pretty clothes, the constant barrage of pregnant celebs with their glamorous outfits, faultless make up, and (naturally) the perfect pregnant body simply makes us feel like we’re not matching up.

And yes, pregnancy portraits are definitely on every trendy pregnancy To Do Lists; but they are about so much more.
Looking at the images of pregnant you – intimate, feminine (and, yes, beautiful) can actually change your perception of yourself.
Pregnancy photography can help you see past the rounder, wider, softer body you avoid in the mirror, and see the strong gorgeous woman you are.
And of course, the more people do it, the more we see these portraits hanging in houses, the more ‘normal’ they become – and the more we re-learn what the cavemen knew and celebrated seventeen thousand years ago.

As Amy wrote recently after viewing her images “I, as a pregnant woman, feel beautiful again”.

“...we came away feeling wonderfully positive and bonded as a family – but also I as a pregnant woman felt beautiful again, which I had not been feeling at all. Thank you.” - Amy


Making Kids Sexy

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Words: Amanda O’Hara

With the government’s plans to crackdown on the commercialisation and inappropriate sexualisation of chidren, I decided to look around the internet and see what products were out there on the market for kids.

In the past the PM has attacked BHS for its “harmful and creepy” Little Miss range of padded bras and sexy knickers for under-10′s and has more recently targeted Primark for selling £4 padded bras for girls aged 9.

This time last year I wrote a piece titled ‘Some of the best worst kids Christmas gifts ever’ which featured a breast feeding doll, a pole dancing doll and a nipple tassle toddler t-shirt.

So looking at the slightly less weird, I decided to search for children’s clothes. I thought I would be highlighting inappropriate items from Madonna and 14 yr old Lourdes’ MG Range, only I found a few items a little more peculiar.

Question:

If you saw this T-shirt in a window, would you think it was designed for an adult or a child?

Why of course it is designed for an Adult.

So why does Redbubble’s website give you the option to order these artists designs on popper vests for babies, and T-shirts for children 2-12 yrs? Lets hope it’s just a flaw in the sites coding?

Mini Barratts are selling Metallic heels in junior sizes starting at a size 1 and whilst I think they are fairly high for young children, I wanted to see if I could find anything higher.  That is when I came across these boots and tights on a site called Skimpy Outfits. Although it is a US site, these products (and the same model) are knocking around a few UK sites too.

High heel leather calf boots for kids….
Fishnet stockings?
Is that really the look for a child?

Pictured left – Beautiful tights, but is that an appropriate child like pose for selling tights?

And where is her skirt?

Onto my next search…

I googled ‘children’s underwear’ and found this (check out the Children’s classic thong)

Now presuming that last one was just a mistake… lets move onto something a little more normal.

Barbie…

Whether you love her or hate her, Barbie has been around for a long time and will remain here for many more years to come. In the past, she has been under scrutiny for the image she portrays. It has been estimated that in real life she would be around 5ft 6″ and weigh around 8 stone! This sexy tall super skinny influential model for young children, who also caused outrage with her Black Canary Barbie collectors doll, offers her very own make-up starter kit compete with lip gloss, glitter nail polish and body glitter!

Harmless enough?

Whilst we are on the subject of Barbie, what do you think of Barbie ‘Video Girl’?
In a recent article in the Daily Mail, it was stated that a ‘cyber crime alert’ from the FBI has said the doll, which went on sale in July and has a recording device in it’s necklace which can be transferred onto a computer, could be used to record footage used for distribution by paedophiles.

So we’ve discovered pole dancing and breast feeding dolls, bizarre T-shirts for kids, high heels, fishnets, boots, make-up, body glitter and plastic role models which leaves me with one more subject to touch on.

The real life role models.

These guys have a big responsibility once they choose to become huge role models to our very young girls.

So what happens when the likes of Miley Cyrus, who your daughter idolises, goes from kiddie pop to teen trash?

I just hope my daughter sticks with practicing the Ice Cream Freeze and not whatever Miley was doing in her concert earlier this year!

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It’s going to be a white-lie Christmas!

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As parents, we bring our children up not to tell lies.
Yet we all commonly practice white-lie telling to our tiny innocents.

Why do we lie to our children?

For years as a child, I thought that Santa and his helpers were watching me through the alarm sensors in the corner of the room and that the red light was some kind of indication/reminder for me to behave…. all year round!

I was scared that one day the wind would change and my face would actually stay that way.

The thought of accidentally seeing the tooth fairy petrified me!

So why do we lie? Is it just a case of ‘we do as we were done to’?

How many of you have told your little ones that Santa only comes to good children. Surely they don’t believe this?
Or maybe they do and at the back of their little minds a part of them that believes they may just wake up to nothing!

Most white lies, or old wives tales as we prefer to call them, seem to be based around food.

Eating carrots makes you see in the dark.

Hold on a second…. I believed that up until I was 34 years and 11 months old (approx 1 hour ago when I first started researching for this post!)
Phew… which is when I found out that there was an element of truth to it! I was right. Carrots contain Beta-carotene which is an essential vitamin for healthy vision.

So what other white lies actually have some truth to them….

Swallowing chewing gum

No it doesn’t stay in your stomach for seven years, however in one case a boy required medical attention after swallowing several pieces each day and a little girl required medical attention when she swallowed gum along with four coins which stuck together in her esophagus.

Eating crusts

No, there is no evidence to suggest that it curls our hair.
However, did you know that if you cut the crusts off your bread you are missing out on the majority of the nutrients.
Also,  burning or over-browning can lower the antioxidants.

Sitting too close to the Television

No. your eyes will not turn ‘square’. Have you ever seen a person with square eyes?! But obviously, there is a little warning with this old wives tale. Sitting up close to the TV and focusing for too long can cause temporary eye strain.

Eating spinach makes you strong

Well yes of course Spinach is good for you but no, sorry boys, you won’t get the desired popeye effect! The idea that spinach makes you strong relates to it’s iron content – it contains iron and magnesium which are essential for muscle development, it also contains Vitamin C, vitamin B-9 and other antioxidants all beneficial to the body.

Telling a lie makes your nose grow

Scientists have discovered that liars’ noses do swell a little when they are bending the truth! Dubbed as the ‘Pinnochio effect’, when a person lies they will touch their nose more than usual. This is because our heart pumps faster when we lie and our nasal tissues swell.

I have just asked on Twitter what lies mums and dads tell… this one made me laugh

pregnancyphoto when the icecream vans music is playing, it means they have run out of ice cream!

What lies (or old wives tales!) do you tell your children?